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What people say after sitting in my audience!
What people say after sitting in my audience! I desire to continue to grow and improve with speaking and teaching! Therefore, I ask for feedback from my audience. I spoke online: Learn How to Confront. I offer workshops and boot camps on this topic for women. A woman searched me out afterward and said, “The…
How do you stop shame-based thoughts?
How do you stop shame-based thoughts? Shame is all about pinning you to the wall or holding you back and down. It’s accusation driven. You should. You could. You better. You ought to. You must. Let me give you a little example. And with her permission. I was on the phone with a woman. She…
10 ways for creatives to invite inspiration!
10 ways for creatives to invite inspiration! Change your furniture around Paint a room or a wall Read outside Walk on a trail MOVE Travel Sit still. Listen Wear colorful clothes Eat new recipes And I’ll share one of my favorite inspirational scenes with you. 10 ways for creatives to invite inspiration! I get up early at the lake…
What do you do with despair?
What do you do with despair? And how do you go forward? Women that live in abuse know despair, like daily! And women that are stuck in life may wrestle with these too! Loss. Hurt. Absence of Hope! Let me remind you I am not a counselor, I am a life purpose coach. And yes, I…
Shock. Numb. What next?
Shock. Numb. What next? Enable me, Lord, to shift—from feelings of shock, numbness, to lean not on my own understanding, but to Trust in the LORD with all my heart. Trust in the LORD with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding. (Proverbs 3:5 NASB) Janey ( not her real name)…
How do I Wage War Against Fear?
How do I Wage War Against Fear? There is only one way. I am so concerned for you with all the fear mongering and the NEWS and the breeding of fear, to cause you to shake and quake and stop living out your life purpose. Fear is destructive, paralyzing, and a breeder of anxiety. Gas…
Is it easier to live in denial?
Is it easier to live in denial? That answer is no. It will catch up with you! The LORD is near to all who call upon Him, To all who call upon Him in truth. (Psalm 145:18 NASB) Betsy (not her real name) walked in, sat down, and said, “I am stuck.” I asked her what…
What does not change?
One person does not change! Only one! GOD, Himself! For I, the LORD, do not change … (Malachi 3:6a NASB) Life ramps up. It brings uncertainty, unsettledness, and unstable times. The stock market changes, budgets change, home’s change, health care changes, and of course body’s change. And you get upset if your life changes? How can…
How to prepare our hearts for conferences?
How to prepare our hearts for conferences? We try to hide the TRUTH within our hearts and act like chameleons. UNTIL, we get sick and tired of faking it and the conviction that GOD sees within our heart. And some of the messy, murky, malicious meanness, rubs us wrong to change, and we confess and…
10 Items for a Writer!
10 of 51 Items for a Writer! This is a list of 10. Just a warm up. Accountability Be Coachable BIC- Butt in chair Book Marketing Book Proposal Budget Computer Courage Determination Disappointments- Oh, I will give you eleven here! Discipline- a must muscle! I have a list of 51 items. Email! if you would…
What is duplicity?
Duplicity is living two lives. Deceitfulness. Double-dealing. It’s way too easy to do this today. Live one life on-line and another life off line. Anyone can throw pictures up and reels of glitz and glamour to get attention, but are you growing and doing the hard growth work where God is nudging you within? He…
When was your first visit to a cemetery?
When was your first visit to a cemetery? Memorial Day is a day on which those who died in active military service are remembered. If you have lost a loved one because of active military service, my sympathy, and thank you for their service. My Memorial Day memories tie in with my first visits to…