Emotional abuse is like living in a foreign land.
Or lost at sea and you can not find your way home.
Living in emotional abuse is like living in a foreign territory if one has never ever experienced such crazy-chaos-type of living. Or lost in a storm. And if you have never lived in a foreign land, see if you are living in abuse as your foreign field of life?
Emotional abuse is like living in a foreign land. Or lost at sea and you can not find your way home.
- The colorful sights.
- The odd sounds.
- The fragrances of new cooked meals.
- The unreadable road signs.
- The strange hand signals.
- The odd currency.
- The clues and cues of flashing red lights. The traffic, the diesel engine smells, the large buses, the small vehicles, the twists and turns, and terrain.
- And then the language barrier, how does one navigate through this when one does not understand what is being said or done to you?
Emotional abuse is like living in a foreign land.
Or like lost at sea and you can not find your way home.
This is what emotional abuse feels like. Why does someone treat someone so poorly? What is this? Why does this person not live by the golden rule, treat others like you would want to be treated?
Instead, one is:
- Ignored.
- Blamed.
- Criticized.
- Humiliated. Made fun of.
- Not asked, how are you?
- Negated.
- Minimized, is a strategy. Reduce you to a morsel.
- And to never finish a conversation is so painful, so stuck, and so dead-end living. If you try to ask a question, it’s pinned back on you as judging or causing issues. And that is not who you are. You want clarity, intimacy, connection, care, love, and support.
- The land mines in the terrain of abuse are hidden, covert, if you step on them they explode in your face. Just like asking the questions or being told you cannot talk about that topic. If you do bring up that topic, it is like dynamite goes off and you shake your head wondering, I want to talk about our budget, but not allowed. Odd. Wrong.
- Emotional abuse is like living in a foreign land. And if you never lived in this as a child, you wonder as an adult, what is this? Or your feel lost at sea and you can not find your way home.
Abuse is like the silent stalker of a killer. And one must learn to listen for the cues and clues to survive in abuse so you can then pivot to the truth and away from deception.
Abuse is deceptive, pins you to the dark side with the Accuser. To break free from abuse takes a want to and a pivot from deception.
Emotional abuse is a stand-alone abuse. You need no black eye to prove you are in abuse.
Abuse wears you down with who you are and what you want.
Abuse is all about control.
And to be ignored in the presence of precious key people in your life, cuts you down to a morsel of a person.
To help you believe it is not YOU, true abuse is consistent and occurs over a period of time, by the same person or group of people, over and over and over.
Betrayal in abuse leads to bitterness or bravery. Each is a choice. Which way will you turn?
Be helped to step out of the trap of abuse. Give Yourself Permission to Become More YOU! And you know peace is not an ingredient in abuse.
Do you want peace?
Be coached to grow a healthy life style instead of living in a foreign territory such as abuse. You are so worth it! Peace in Coaching
