1 BIG mistake women make!

1 BIG mistake women make!

A coaching client said, “I believe I am to do this and this and I have thought this for sometime.” I repeat back to her what I have heard over several coaching sessions and sometimes weeks of coaching time. She looks up. Smiles. She smiles larger,...
What is shame and its lie?

What is shame and its lie?

What is shame and its lie? Shame is all about pinning you down and holding you back from freedom. It’s accusation driven. And driven to the core of your heart for you to believe, the lie, that you are NO GOOD!   Picture someone pointing their finger at you and...
What do you do with self-pity?

What do you do with self-pity?

Self-pity can become addictive. And it stinks. I know so. I got stuck there in life and within myself. Not GOOD! Google says, Self-pity is an excessive, self-absorbed unhappiness over one’s own troubles. And people can wallow in it and milk it.  One can choose...
How do I starve doubt?

How do I starve doubt?

Does doubt follow you around and taunt you?  Then it jumps over your shoulders and swings right into your face smacking you up hard! Shuts you up and/or shuts you down to stop doing what you think you are meant to do. DOUBT is an enemy! And some people have lived with...
How do you pull up the dead roots in your life?

How do you pull up the dead roots in your life?

How do you pull up the dead roots in your life? This past summer, I visited my brother and his wife at their lake house. My brother, Bill, was in need of getting a tree out of their yard, henceforth, this heavy stump. As we visited, my brother sawed one root away, and...