What do you do with self-pity?

What do you do with self-pity?

Self-pity can become addictive. And it stinks. I know so. I got stuck there in life and within myself. Not GOOD! Google says, Self-pity is an excessive, self-absorbed unhappiness over one’s own troubles. And people can wallow in it and milk it.  One can choose...
How do I starve doubt?

How do I starve doubt?

Does doubt follow you around and taunt you?  Then it jumps over your shoulders and swings right into your face smacking you up hard! Shuts you up and/or shuts you down to stop doing what you think you are meant to do. DOUBT is an enemy! And some people have lived with...
Do you know your core values?

Do you know your core values?

Do you know your core values? Or What is your foundation or your guiding principles to live by? Recently, I have looked at a few homes and I walked out of them without offering a bid. Why? The foundation under two of the houses was rotten to the core, wet to the...
How do you stop shame-based thoughts?

How do you stop shame-based thoughts?

How do you stop shame-based thoughts? Shame is all about pinning you to the wall or holding you back and down. It’s accusation driven. You should. You could.  You better. You ought to. You must. Let me give you a little example. And with her permission. I was on...
Is it easier to live in denial?

Is it easier to live in denial?

Is it easier to live in denial? That answer is no. It will catch up with you!  The LORD is near to all who call upon Him, To all who call upon Him in truth. (Psalm 145:18 NASB) Betsy (not her real name) walked in, sat down, and said, “I am stuck.” I asked her what she...