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How can I shrink my second guessing?

How can I shrink my second guessing?

How can I shrink my second guessing? The answer is to know the truth as doubt delivers second guessing! Know the truth and if that has been scrambled in the abuse, discover the truth about YOU! Any woman who has lived in abuse, second guessing is a given. It begins by the abuser casting doubt on the…

What do you do with anger?

What do you do with anger?

What do you do with anger?    BLOG #5 Hey friends, this will be my last post on this topic, yet it takes a lot more than a few post to work through anger. If you would like a class on freeing yourself from the frustrations that sabotage your life, reach out to me. I…

How do I shrink fear from my life?

How do I shrink fear from my life?

How do I shrink fear from my life?  For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind. (II Timothy 1:7 KJV) What does fear do to our bodies? I came upon this verse, “Men’s hearts failing them for fear…” (Luke 21:26). It caused…

What does emotional abuse look like?

What does emotional abuse look like?

What does emotional abuse look like? When people hear the word abuse they automatically think of physical abuse. Emotional abuse exists in an abuse category all its own. And it is abuse. It can hurt and last longer than the physical abuse as NO ONE SEES it, but let me tell you it slaughters a…

What do you do with anger?

What do you do with anger?

What do you do with anger? BLOG #4 Hey friends, every Friday I will try and post a few steps on this topic of anger. Feel free to leave your comments. Anger has a hidden message.  If you are a Christian or not, women all over the world are experiencing anger. And they are embarrassed and…

How do you grow your voice?

How do you grow your voice?

How do you grow your voice? Are you scared to death to speak up? Is there a longing within to come out and be you? Your stomach knots, fingers twitch, cheeks turn red, and your eyes lock. You know you are to grow your voice, but what do I do and what do I say?…

4 Truths to Fortify Wise Women!

4 Truths to Fortify Wise Women!

4 Truths to Fortify Wise Women! LOVE your LIFE! Learn how to grow in wisdom to love your life! In my early twenties, I was naïve of how hard life could be and of the hurts that could come from life. I had been blessed with a safe wonderful upbringing. And expected more of that…

Many women live day by day on an emotional roller coaster.

Many women live day by day on an emotional roller coaster.

Many women live day by day on an emotional roller coaster. Can you relate to any of these? I’m sad. I’m a failure. I can’t do that. I’m not good enough. I’m an anxious person. I’m frustrated. I’m jealous. I’m indecisive. I’m worthless. I’m lonely. It’s the way we all are in my family, critical…

What do you do with anger?

What do you do with anger?

What do you do with anger? BLOG #3 Hey friends, every Friday I will try and post a few steps on this topic of anger. Feel free to leave your comments. Anger is an issue women deal with. The issue is, you want to learn MORE SO of how to live without the destructive anger.…

7 truths to face for women living in emotional abuse

7 truths to face for women living in emotional abuse

7 Truths to face for women living in emotional abuse! If you’ re living in the land of abuse, you’re led to believe something that is not reality. The abuser skews and taints your mind and in a sense brain washes you to control YOU! And leads you to believe THAT IT IS YOU that is…

20 heartfelt hurts when emotional abuse is in play!

20 heartfelt hurts when emotional abuse is in play!

20 heartfelt hurts when emotional abuse is in play! Alone Anxious Blamed Codependent Criticized Guilted Ignored Isolated Manipulated Not heard Not validated Receives no empathy Second guessing grows Enables him, (secret) Seeks counseling and maybe the spouse too, only to pacify for a time. Shame is huge She feels like his thumb is on her…

A life coach

A life coach

Do you long to know:  Who am I? What is next? Is this all there is to life? And do you have a traumatic story you want to use for His Glory? If so, you are not alone!  I asked myself, who am I? And what does God want to do with me in this season…