Bust out of the denial of emotional abuse…but how?
- If you’ re living in the land of abuse, you’re led to believe something that is not reality.
- The abuser skews and taints your mind and in a sense brain washes you to control YOU!
- And leads you to believe THAT IT IS YOU, that is the issue. YOU!
- The truth is, it is not you. But, you have to want more for yourself, so step out of denial.
Bust out of the denial of emotional abuse...but how?
- Admit you are being abused.
- Emotional. Mental. Physical. Financial. Sexual.
- Get help, tell someone the truth of your life. Someone you trust, tell them. Now.
- Stop listening to his or her lies…such as:
- You can not do that.
- You need to change this.
- You are too sensitive.
- Why would you do that?
- You should not feel that way. How in the world does he or she know how you feel?
Bust out of the denial of emotional abuse…but how?
4. When you are fed a daily diet of doubt casting questions and comments … a person in abuse second guesses themselves, which then creates anxiety. Which then grows indecision making and lies that they can not step without the abuser’s approval.
Self doubt then grows within. Therefore, you doubt your own ability to make a decision and you remain stuck, sad, and spin in the abuse. And the abuser wins.
5. Lies come with it as well. Instead of the lies that have been stuck to you, you must learn to let go of those lies, one by one, and speak the Truth! It can be done. I know so.
Stand on this TRUTH! God is for you, not against you. Stand on this TRUTH! “…God is for me…” (Romans 8:31b NASB). He is not for abuse.
6. The one in abuse, being abused, must face and admit they want more in life and were made for more and better treatment.
Bust out of the denial of emotional abuse…but how?
7. You can choose to change the direction of your life and it must start with you. And if you think this can not be done, I will argue that to my last breath, you can change your life. And if you choose to own your own junk and grow past being abused and that you want more for yourself, you will succeed to grow your voice.
Start with one step at a time toward freedom. Once you start you will not want to stop as you sense freedom.
Are you ready to walk out of someone slaughtering your heart? If so, reach out for coaching options. Step one. Email
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Be coached to become more you and not be abused. You are worth it. Pain to Purpose!
Abuse is no way to live.
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