Recently I was asked, why do you coach women?
To sum it up:
- The emotional pain I lived in for years and praying for my life purpose.
- And coaching is my life purpose.
- It’s finding purpose in the pain. And that is exactly what I help women with, to find purpose with their pain filled story.
Here is a short slice of my story, very short.
Domestic abuse! Narcissism. And Triangulation!
I stood at my brother’s casket (06) and asked God, if that was me in the casket what would people believe about my life?
I grieved and groaned. People would believe a lie about my life. And I was not going to die in a lie. God and I had work to do to unveil the truth of my story.
Discipleship Is Costly
“Then Jesus said to His disciples, “If anyone wishes to come after Me, he must deny himself, and take up his cross and follow Me. For whoever wishes to save his life will lose it; but whoever loses his life for My sake will find it” (Matthew 16:24-25, NASB).
I had been deceived. After two decades of living in this environment with a deceiver, I had been lassoed into his trap through fear and doubt casting. The internal pain was closing in on me. And my secret wanted out.
Confusion and chaos swirled around me daily. Deception. Manipulation. Daily change ups. Crazy making.
I wanted to live life so badly for the Lord, the good life. And for my precious children’s sake too. Yet, the emotional pain was about to suck what little of life I had left right out of me.
I had to speak the truth. It is who I am. And Jesus is the truth and I am one of His followers. Yet, if I did speak out what would be the cost?
BUT GOD!
The cross in the road came when I discovered that I had a life purpose and what it was, (06) weeks after my brother’s death. It was a reason to why I was STILL alive. I chose to step little by little toward God’s call. Then to be coached, in to counseling, and to speak out and expose the abuse. Steps. And more steps. And God went before me. I stepped on my road to recovery and God healed my minced heart.
So-long-abuse, as I found purpose with my pain filled story. I want that for you too. Book a time to chat to set up your coaching plan. Book 30 free minutes of coaching with me~
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