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Who cares?
Who cares & what difference does it make? Completing my speaking topic to women in church leadership, I collected their written responses. I had asked women to jot down descriptive words of the needs of their heart. With sadness, I prayed silently for the woman who had written, “Who cares, what difference does it make?”…
Are you stuck in grief?
Are you stuck in grief? Is your pain increasing? Do you long to get to the other side of your disappointments in life and live? Maybe you have asked yourself, how does one move through the valley of loss to acceptance? If so, you are not the only one. Love and loss and disappointments hurt.…
Women’s pain from emotional abuse:
Women’s pain from emotional abuse: (I only coach women and I do know that there are abusive women, so if you are a man reading this in abuse, get help too.) How many of these phrases can you relate to? ____ How many are increasing in damage to your soul? ___ Chaos grows Everything is uncertain…
Are you living in denial?
Are you living in denial? Betsy walked in, sat down, and said, “I am stuck.” Betsy had been married for almost 20 years. She learned recently of her husband’s porn addiction when she asked him, What was he viewing on his tablet? She was grieved to the core of her being. (And women be aware…
Do you desire to grow your speaking and writing skills?
Leaders, do you desire to grow your speaking and writing skills? Take this little quiz. Do you think, you are to be speaking? Do you think, you are to be writing? Do you desire to sharpen your leadership skills in either of these areas? Do you long to tell your story? Are you scared to…
Are you starved for someone to listen to you?
Are you starved for someone to listen to you? Do you want to be heard? Do you have a story to tell, but who is listening to you? I am so glad to have you here today. And of all days I am posting this link on Good Friday. No pain compares to what Christ…
How do we respond when our way is thwarted?
How do we respond when our way is thwarted? How do we respond to life’s situations that block us, stop us, and/or thwart us? After living through COVID-19 I am certain we all could say we have experienced this. Our life hums along and then a big boulder or several BIG stones are plopped in our…
How can I shrink my second guessing?
How can I shrink my second guessing? The answer is to know the truth as doubt delivers second guessing! Know the truth and if that has been scrambled in the abuse, discover the truth about YOU! Any woman who has lived in abuse, second guessing is a given. It begins by the abuser casting doubt on the…
What do you do with anger?
What do you do with anger? BLOG #5 Hey friends, this will be my last post on this topic, yet it takes a lot more than a few post to work through anger. If you would like a class on freeing yourself from the frustrations that sabotage your life, reach out to me. I…
How do I shrink fear from my life?
How do I shrink fear from my life? For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind. (II Timothy 1:7 KJV) What does fear do to our bodies? I came upon this verse, “Men’s hearts failing them for fear…” (Luke 21:26). It caused…
What does emotional abuse look like?
What does emotional abuse look like? When people hear the word abuse they automatically think of physical abuse. Emotional abuse exists in an abuse category all its own. And it is abuse. It can hurt and last longer than the physical abuse as NO ONE SEES it, but let me tell you it slaughters a…
What do you do with anger?
What do you do with anger? BLOG #4 Hey friends, every Friday I will try and post a few steps on this topic of anger. Feel free to leave your comments. Anger has a hidden message. If you are a Christian or not, women all over the world are experiencing anger. And they are embarrassed and…