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Are you at a crossroad in life?
Are you at a crossroad while living in emotional abuse? Lies ensnare you! You can not. You're impossible. Why do you think you could do that? That's not you. And on an on the negativity is pinned on you, to trap you and to keep you stuck. Which way will you go? Stay...
Five side effects of shame based thinking!
Shame based thinking is accusation driven and performance based living. You should. You could. You better. You ought to. You must. 1. Shame pins you down. 2. It holds you back. 3. You spin in one spot. 4. And ruminate over and over and over. 5. And yet to never...
20 reasons not to give up on you and your life!
For women in abuse they see and watch others’ lives go forward, but they're stuck. Also for women in grief and loss. And perhaps for children that lived in abuse who are now adults. There is such trauma around it all. 20 reasons not to give up on you and your life!...
Are you tired of feeling stuck and unfulfilled in life?
Do you feel like you're going through the motions without any real purpose or direction? Stuck? Unfulfilled? JOIN the Enable Me, Lord, to Shift 31 day Devotional Coaching Group to learn to come alive to live! Join today. Email! Over the course of four months, you'll...
Learn F.A.C.E. to confront!
Do you need to learn to confront so you can grow and have healthy conversations? Once upon a time, I dreaded this topic. I studied. Read. Studied some more, as I had a mountain of anger that was boiling within me and I had to learn to address that without spewing it...
How do I grow in my self-confidence?
Before He created the universe, the Lord Himself had His designer eye on you. Believe this Truth to grow in your self-confidence. Remember the childhood game, “Red Rover, Red Rover, send Annie right on over?” Your name is shouted out, called out, desired, needed, and...
Are you addicted to the approval of others?
Are you a people pleaser? I read that 10% - 15 % of the people we meet in life will never like us. SO - 85% to 90 % will like us!! 🙂 So why allow such a small number of people to control our life and scare us in how we choose to respond. Let’s try this to see if...
How do you grow your faith?
How do you grow your faith? You have to exercise your faith muscles in the domain of your life that you get stuck in. So how do you do that? Begin with the reality of your life. Very basic, you take stock or inventory right where you’re at. And if you keep repeating...
Finding Beauty in the Midst of Oppression!
Finding beauty in the midst of oppression takes work. Focus. A Choice. A deliberate look about. Where have you searched or what have you searched for in the midst of pain, suffering, waiting, and/or oppression? Last week, I stopped the car when temps were bitter cold...
How do you stop the fear filled thought train?
Thoughts are ideas. They can be loaded with lies or truth, or a mix of both. How do you stop the fear filled thought train? Learn to live in a day tight compartment! As we begin a new year and are slugging toward the end of this month, you may have had issues...
Four Steps to Begin To Resurrect Your Life After Emotional Abuse.
Emotional abuse slaughters a heart. So how do you come back to life? How do you resurrect your life? You embrace that YOUR LIFE MATTERS & and you begin with four steps! And if you landed on this blog post, you maybe in abuse, or you may not know you are in abuse,...
10 Q/A about Emotional Abuse Recovery Work.
Piercings from abuse cut long and deep into our souls. It can be mental, emotional, spiritual, verbal, physical, sexual, and/or financial abuse. Emotional abuse can linger long after all other abuse has stopped. Abuse violates the core of our soul. Ask anyone that...