How do you live in uncertain times?
For this answer I know it well, keep reading. For over twenty five years I lived in a marriage of abuse. Living in abuse and our current culture is growing closer in looks by the day. In abuse, uncertainty is bedrock to keep the victim on edge and the oppressor in control.
How do we live in uncertain times?
In the abuse, daily and weekly change-ups became more and more common. I hated them with a passion. You name it I experienced it, except for the black eye and marks on my body. Covert abuse was the weapon and I was emotionally, mentally, verbally, spiritually, financially abused. Hush her up. Quiet her down, keep her deceived. And I never knew of emotional abuse until year 22 of the marriage and walked into counseling shortly after. If you are not aware of where you are in life or what it is, you idle in it. Stuck!
And if I spoke up and out and asked a question or two or three, I was threated into submission with looks of intimidation. Unfortunately, it was not just me that witnessed this mess and massive destruction, it was my three precious gems. My most valuable gifts from GOD. May they forgive me for not getting help sooner, yet how in the world do you explain something so evil, as abuse, when you yourself are the target and you do not get it?
Does this match our current culture?
First, doubt is cast on the Truth and of what reality is. Doubt casting came sliding into our country in a mighty BIG way during the COVID days.
Doubt creates Uncertainty! It shakes one up! It’s like putting you, a person, in a cardboard box and shaking you up.
Imagine living in that every day of your life. It rattles bones and homes.
How do you live in uncertain times?
Let me paint a clearer picture of abuse for you as I think the WORLD is matching oppression.
In abuse, picture a home placed inside a cardboard box made of uncertainty. The walls of the home are paper thin.
The abuser loves to use uncertainty. Keeps the victim on edge. One is trapped in isolation in this box.
This powers the abuser up and gives him or her control. Isolation. Uncertainty. Shake them up in that box. And then anxiety is tossed into your box of life hourly, and daily, to keep you fearing and fretting and cowering!
FEAR is growing in our world.
And for those of you watching the news, as it is a political year. Be wise what you watch, when you watch, and what and who you listen to. And do vote.
Back to our home in a cardboard box.
Crazy makers, abusers and leaders of oppression, love to keep the victim fear bound. Then they shake up your box of life daily and hourly at times. And don’t you dare speak out, or step up, or step out.
Be wise dear women! The best answer is to learn the TRUTH! Focus on the TRUTH, state the Truth, live from the Word of God.
And anchor to the Word of God. And discover your life purpose and get about doing what He has called you to do, for such a time as this!
Only you can change your mindset as God is over all, even when the world spins with uncertainty. You are still in charge of your mindset.
I grew up and out of the abuse by standing on the Word and laying my life down to tell the truth and to coach women from pain to purpose.
Uncertainty rocks. Will you let it rock your world? Or will you grow in the Truth and discover your life purpose? Truth that Solidifies YOU- Discover Your Life Purpose!
