Emotional abuse slaughters a heart.
So how do you come back to life? How do you resurrect your life?
You embrace that YOUR LIFE MATTERS & and you begin with four steps!
And if you landed on this blog post, you maybe in abuse, or you may not know you are in abuse, but you wonder. Well, do me and you a favor, describe your heart condition. Three words or phrases.
Women often say:
- Bruised inside.
- Barely beating.
- Shriveled Up.
- Exhausted.
- Physically sore.
- Twisted.
- A mess.
- Messy.
- Chaos.
- Scrambled.
- Confused.
- I don’t know who I am.
- Fear runs me over.
- I am so confused.
- I am so sad.
- I am so devalued as a human being… And this woman can hardly hold her head up. And she wonders how in the world she got this far down in life.
If this fits you, who is treating you so?
Emotional abuse is so sneaky. It is all about whittling a person down and taking control of another human being by minimizing that person right out of life.
Or with a word picture, an abuser, a narcissists’ leans his or her ladder of life on you. And they’re going to run up and down that ladder hurting you emotionally to get you to cower, bow, and be subservient to them. They use techniques and hidden agendas to make this occur. And the sick thing is, the person does this to elevate themselves, by taking you out. Don’t let them win. You are worth living. Your life matters. Believe.
And if the ladder picture did not help, picture someone taking out a little jackknife (google it, if you are unware of what that is) and they take a little piece of wood and totally cut away at the shape of it, to make it in to what they want. The issue with covert abuse is the person holding the jackknife whittles away at their victim until there is only a little skinny stick left, if that.
Four Steps to Begin To Resurrect Your Life After Emotional Abuse! They are just the beginning.
- Recognize that you are being abused. You are being abused. You are being used.
- Decide, now, if you want to get help for you to change you. You do have value. GOD made you. He has a plan with your life. I know so.
- You can not control or change an abuser or narcissists. You can not. What is the first thing you need to stop doing?
- Name one goal or thing you want for you. Is it joy, peace, focus, happiness, a place, calmness or purpose? My prayer for me was I wanted to know my purpose. I wanted to know why I was still alive.
- And you?
I care for the hearts of women and women are my niche, especially hurting women that want to discover their life purpose and to use their pain for good.
- Book a time to chat. Book 20 minutes of coaching!
- Purchase a coaching plan today and we will get started within days to meet. Learn to live beyond emotional pain!
- Begin to read my first book. Enable Me, Lord, to Shift, book #1
- Only you can do your life. Only you can change you. And it will hurt like CRAZY to strip away from someone that is hurting you so much, and you are caught in co-dependency. And ask yourself, is that love? As no one has the right to treat another person like garbage. You are worth more. You are a jewel, GOD created and formed YOU! After all, you were His idea. I know so. What does that say about how much He loves you? He wanted you created!
