7 truths to face for women living in emotional abuse

7 Truths to face for women living in emotional abuse!

If you’ re living in the land of abuse, you’re led to believe something that is not reality. The abuser skews and taints your mind and in a sense brain washes you to control YOU! And leads you to believe THAT IT IS YOU that is the issue. YOU!

And it is all you that is in error.

You may have heard these issues:

1. You are the one that always causes issues and you must change. YOU!
   1. • You cannot do that.
      • You need to change this.
      • You need to tell them.
      • Why would you do that?
      • You should not feel that way. Who are they to tell you how to feel?
      • You are too demanding.
      • You should say this or that.
      • You really think that is going to happen?
      • Why did you say that?
      • Why did you do that?

When you are fed a daily diet of these questions and comments … a person in abuse second guesses themselves which creates anxiety.

2. Second guessing is an ingredient sown into the abused.

3. Self doubt then grows within you. Therefore, you doubt your own ability to make a decision and you remain stuck, sad, and spin in the abuse. And the abuser wins.

4. Anxiety for sure comes with it. It keeps you off center.

5. Lies come with it as well. Instead of the lies that have been stuck to you, you must learn to let all of those lies go, one by one, and speak the Truth!

Stand on this TRUTH! “The LORD has made everything for its purpose,” (Proverbs 16:4 ESV).You may feel you want to run, hide, scream as the abuse is so painful when your dreams are smashed and your voice is ignored. YET, God has more good for you to do yet and He is not for abuse.

Stand on this TRUTH! God is for you, not against you. Stand on this TRUTH! “…God is for me…” (Romans 8:31b NASB).

6. The one in abuse must face and admit they want more in life and were made for more and better treatment.

7. You can choose to change the direction of your life and it must start with you. And if you think this can not be done, I will argue that to my last breath, you can change your life. And if you choose to own your own junk and grow past being abused and that you want more for yourself, you will succeed to grow your voice.

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