Do you like yourself?
At one time in my story I did not like myself. Matter of fact I didn’t give myself much of anything but a lot of work and busyness. I did not care for the person I saw in the mirror staring back at me. There was a duplicity going on in my life and I needed to merge the two women together. The Darlene that did, and did, and did. She needed to stop and bring out the Darlene that was tucked within. I hid my true self as the abuse I lived in hurt me over and over to come out and be real. So I went inside.
BUT GOD… I wanted wholeness. By God’s great handiwork by emptying me of a lot of hurt and ugliness, He brought the two Darlene’s together as I am one person, one in one, truly the same, whole, restored. I look in the mirror at the silver locks and walk away, yes, same one. It is a gift to like/love oneself. Then your love can be poured purely into and all over others.
11 Recipes to Like Yourself!
- Admit, it is okay you are not perfect. You are a human being and we are all sinners.
- Forgive Yourself.
- Ask for Jesus enabling as apart from God we can do nothing, John 15:5 b.
- Name three things you like about yourself. Admit your GOOD and GREAT qualities.
- I can do this well…
- I can do this well…
- I can do this…
- And I am loved by GOD…
- Buy yourself some flowers!
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Go do something you have longed to do for fun.
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Name a lie that you need to delete.
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Buy yourself something that you have neglected to buy for yourself.
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Speak kindly to yourself.
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Remove words such as stupid, should have, dummy…
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Step toward discovering more about you. Invest in you… You are worth it!
What you will do to show yourself, I like me.
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