Do you like yourself?

At one time in my story I did not like myself. Matter of fact I didn’t give myself much of anything but a lot of work and busyness. I did not care for the person I saw in the mirror staring back at me. There was a duplicity going on in my life and I needed to merge the two women together. The Darlene that did, and did, and did. She needed to stop and bring out the Darlene that was tucked within. I hid my true self  as the abuse I lived in hurt me over and over to come out and be real. So I went inside.

BUT GOD… I wanted wholeness. By God’s great handiwork by emptying me of a lot of hurt and ugliness, He brought the two Darlene’s together as I am  one person, one in one, truly the same, whole, restored. I look in the mirror at the silver locks and walk away, yes, same one. It is a gift to like/love oneself. Then your love can be poured purely into and all over others. 

11 Recipes to Like Yourself! 

  1. Admit, it is okay you are not perfect. You are a human being and we are all sinners.
  2. Forgive Yourself.
  3. Ask for Jesus enabling as apart from God we can do nothing, John 15:5 b.
  4. Name three things you like about yourself. Admit your GOOD and GREAT qualities.
    • I can do this well…
    • I can do this well…
    • I can do this…
    • And I am loved by GOD…
  5. Buy yourself some flowers!
  6. Go do something you have longed to do for fun.

  7. Name a lie that you need to delete.

  8. Buy yourself something that you have neglected to buy for yourself.

  9. Speak kindly to yourself.

  10. Remove words such as stupid, should have, dummy…

  11. Step toward discovering more about you. Invest in you…  You are worth it!

What you will do to show yourself, I like me.

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